Genesis 2:25 Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame. (They had no reason-knowledge to think naked was wrong)
Genesis 3:4 Then the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. 5 For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”
Shame is brought on by our inward knowing or belief that we are wrong. When we believe or become aware that we are wrong, even if deceived, then we have shame. Shame is a feeling that follows the understanding we are wrong. Shame is a sensation designed to prompt us into change. If we are wrong then we ought to change to make us right. So we ought to seek God's righteousness.
Proverbs 13:18 Whoever disregards discipline comes to poverty and shame, but whoever heeds correction is honored.
Shame comes about in different ways. It may be some knowledge about ourselves we grew up with and are just now becoming aware of it. For instance our parents may have told us we were no good or we were to blame for our problems, that we were bad, and perhaps even going to hell. We may have come to believe we were wrong and a failure. This type of shame is similar to Adam and Eve, but instead of a serpent we had parents who perhaps handed their own shame over to their children. They learned they were wrong from wrong knowledge. This can be very destructive. Instead of hiding behind fig leaves people with this shame often hide behind lies and would tend to isolate emotionally if not also physically.
Sharing intimacy growing up may have lead to hurt feelings. This was not the way God designed it. God's design for intimacy is about safety and security through faith, but our beliefs/faith need to be aligned right in order to feel safe and secure. If we trust in ungodly ways we can be spiritually, mentally, and emotionally hurt, but if we have our faith aligned right with God nothing can harm our mind, heart, and soul. We are to trust in God and seek only to please God. We please others of course as a result of seeking to please God because of God's grace. Honesty and truth will form in us a new understanding and faith.
Once we have a firm understanding about God, taking action toward repentance, and building Godly character, then when others try to treat us in a shameful way we may easily disregard it. We will know it is not the truth and find no need to feel uncomfortable. People sin and sometimes attempt to place their fears and shame on others, but we do not have to accept it.
Psalm 22:5 To you they cried out and were saved; in you they trusted and were not put to shame.
Psalm 34:5 Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.
Psalm 86:17 Give me a sign of your goodness, that my enemies may see it and be put to shame, for you, Lord, have helped me and comforted me.
Psalm 119:6 Then I would not be put to shame when I consider all your commands.
Psalm 119:31 I hold fast to your statutes, Lord; do not let me be put to shame.
Psalm 119:80 May I wholeheartedly follow your decrees, that I may not be put to shame.
Our own thinking, messages we tell ourselves, may be shameful even toward ourselves and we must guard against it, correct it, and replace it toward peace. We ought to incorporate different message statements. For example, instead of calling ourselves stupid for making a mistake we can pray to God for guidance and seek how to do better. We can forgive and seek mercy with compassion instead of intimidation. Information which promotes negative feelings and low motivation can be destructive. We ought to be humble of course, but we ought to take care not to teach ourselves to be hopeless and helpless. Instead we ought to think and speak hopeful words. If we see no hope then we ought to seek God in application of God's teachings. Willingness to give up our selfish beliefs and our current way of doing and thinking may be required to break free from hopelessness. If we feel stuck then we need to do something different, perhaps a lot different. Through God's Love, Truth, and Strength we can do so much more then we are aware, yet we must apply Patience, perseverance, endurance, and faith. We ought to apply every effort to grow in alignment with God inwardly through our thoughts to increase our faith in God.
Shame lies with our separation from God
Proverbs 13:5 The righteous hate what is false, but the wicked make themselves a stench and bring shame on themselves.
Proverbs 18:13 To answer before listening— that is folly and shame.
Proverbs 19:26 Whoever robs their father and drives out their mother is a child who brings shame and disgrace.
Isaiah 42:17 But those who trust in idols, who say to images, ‘You are our gods,’ will be turned back in utter shame.
Isaiah 44:9 All who make idols are nothing, and the things they treasure are worthless. Those who would speak up for them are blind; they are ignorant, to their own shame.
Jeremiah 3:25 Let us lie down in our shame, and let our disgrace cover us. We have sinned against the Lord our God, both we and our ancestors; from our youth till this day we have not obeyed the Lord our God.”
Jeremiah 6:15 Are they ashamed of their detestable conduct? No, they have no shame at all; they do not even know how to blush. So they will fall among the fallen; they will be brought down when I punish them,” says the Lord.
Jeremiah 8:9 The wise will be put to shame; they will be dismayed and trapped. Since they have rejected the word of the Lord, what kind of wisdom do they have?
Jeremiah 10:14 Everyone is senseless and without knowledge; every goldsmith is shamed by his idols. The images he makes are a fraud; they have no breath in them.
Jeremiah 13:27 your adulteries and lustful neighings, your shameless prostitution! I have seen your detestable acts on the hills and in the fields. Woe to you, Jerusalem! How long will you be unclean?”
Jeremiah 17:13 Lord, you are the hope of Israel; all who forsake you will be put to shame. Those who turn away from you will be written in the dust because they have forsaken the Lord, the spring of living water.
Ezekiel 32:24 All who had spread terror in the land of the living went down uncircumcised to the earth below. They bear their shame with those who go down to the pit.
Daniel 9:7 “Lord, you are righteous, but this day we are covered with shame—the people of Judah and the inhabitants of Jerusalem and all Israel, both near and far, in all the countries where you have scattered us because of our unfaithfulness to you.
Daniel 9:8 We and our kings, our princes and our ancestors are covered with shame, Lord, because we have sinned against you.
Daniel 12:2 Multitudes who sleep in the dust of the earth will awake: some to everlasting life, others to shame and everlasting contempt.
Hosea 9:10 “When I found Israel, it was like finding grapes in the desert; when I saw your ancestors, it was like seeing the early fruit on the fig tree. But when they came to Baal Peor, they consecrated themselves to that shameful idol and became as vile as the thing they loved.
Obadiah 1:10 Because of the violence against your brother Jacob, you will be covered with shame; you will be destroyed forever.
Romans 1:25-26 25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen. 26 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts.
1 Corinthians 15:34 Come back to your senses as you ought, and stop sinning; for there are some who are ignorant of God—I say this to your shame.
Ephesians 5:12 It is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret.
Philippians 3:19 Their destiny is destruction, their god is their stomach, and their glory is in their shame. Their mind is set on earthly things.
Jude 1:13 They are wild waves of the sea, foaming up their shame; wandering stars, for whom blackest darkness has been reserved forever.
Revelation 21:27 Nothing impure will ever enter it, nor will anyone who does what is shameful or deceitful, but only those whose names are written in the Lamb’s book of life.
Zephaniah 3:5 The Lord within her is righteous; he does no wrong. Morning by morning he dispenses his justice, and every new day he does not fail, yet the unrighteous know no shame.
Romans 5:5 And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.
Romans 9:33 As it is written: “See, I lay in Zion a stone that causes people to stumble and a rock that makes them fall, and the one who believes in him will never be put to shame.” (remember... believing is changing in his likeness)
Romans 10:11 As Scripture says, “Anyone who believes in him will never be put to shame.”
2 Corinthians 4:2 Rather, we have renounced secret and shameful ways; we do not use deception, nor do we distort the word of God. On the contrary, by setting forth the truth plainly we commend ourselves to everyone’s conscience in the sight of God.
1 Peter 2:6 For in Scripture it says: “See, I lay a stone in Zion, a chosen and precious cornerstone, and the one who trusts in him will never be put to shame.”
Deuteronomy 32:5 They are corrupt and not his children; to their shame they are a warped and crooked generation.
Job 8:22 Your enemies will be clothed in shame, and the tents of the wicked will be no more.”
Job 10:15 If I am guilty—woe to me! Even if I am innocent, I cannot lift my head, for I am full of shame and drowned in my affliction.
Job 19:3 Ten times now you have reproached me; shamelessly you attack me.
Psalm 6:10 All my enemies will be overwhelmed with shame and anguish; they will turn back and suddenly be put to shame.
Psalm 25:2 I trust in you; do not let me be put to shame, nor let my enemies triumph over me.
Psalm 25:20 Guard my life and rescue me; do not let me be put to shame, for I take refuge in you.
Psalm 31:17 Let me not be put to shame, Lord, for I have cried out to you; but let the wicked be put to shame and be silent in the realm of the dead.
Psalm 35:26 May all who gloat over my distress be put to shame and confusion; may all who exalt themselves over me be clothed with shame and disgrace.
Psalm 40:14 May all who want to take my life be put to shame and confusion; may all who desire my ruin be turned back in disgrace.
Psalm 70:3 May those who say to me, “Aha! Aha!” turn back because of their shame.
Psalm 83:16 Cover their faces with shame, Lord, so that they will seek your name.
Psalm 119:46 I will speak of your statutes before kings and will not be put to shame,
Psalm 119:78 May the arrogant be put to shame for wronging me without cause; but I will meditate on your precepts.
Psalm 129:5 May all who hate Zion be turned back in shame.
Proverbs 3:35 The wise inherit honor, but fools get only shame.
Proverbs 14:35 A king delights in a wise servant, but a shameful servant arouses his fury.
Proverbs 18:3 When wickedness comes, so does contempt, and with shame comes reproach.
Isaiah 30:3 But Pharaoh’s protection will be to your shame, Egypt’s shade will bring you disgrace.
Isaiah 44:11 People who do that will be put to shame; such craftsmen are only human beings. Let them all come together and take their stand; they will be brought down to terror and shame.
Isaiah 45:16 All the makers of idols will be put to shame and disgraced; they will go off into disgrace together.
Isaiah 45:17 But Israel will be saved by the Lord with an everlasting salvation; you will never be put to shame or disgraced, to ages everlasting.
Isaiah 47:3 Your nakedness will be exposed and your shame uncovered. I will take vengeance; I will spare no one.”
Isaiah 65:13 Therefore this is what the Sovereign Lord says: “My servants will eat, but you will go hungry; my servants will drink, but you will go thirsty; my servants will rejoice, but you will be put to shame.
Jeremiah 23:40 I will bring on you everlasting disgrace—everlasting shame that will not be forgotten.”
Jeremiah 51:17 “Everyone is senseless and without knowledge; every goldsmith is shamed by his idols. The images he makes are a fraud; they have no breath in them.
Ezekiel 22:11 In you one man commits a detestable offense with his neighbor’s wife, another shamefully defiles his daughter-in-law, and another violates his sister, his own father’s daughter.
Ezekiel 44:13 They are not to come near to serve me as priests or come near any of my holy things or my most holy offerings; they must bear the shame of their detestable practices.
Hosea 4:18 Even when their drinks are gone, they continue their prostitution; their rulers dearly love shameful ways.
Hosea 4:19 A whirlwind will sweep them away, and their sacrifices will bring them shame.
Joel 2:27 Then you will know that I am in Israel, that I am the Lord your God, and that there is no other; never again will my people be shamed.
Nahum 3:5 “I am against you,” declares the Lord Almighty. “I will lift your skirts over your face. I will show the nations your nakedness and the kingdoms your shame.
Habakkuk 2:16 You will be filled with shame instead of glory. Now it is your turn! Drink and let your nakedness be exposed! The cup from the Lord’s right hand is coming around to you, and disgrace will cover your glory.
Zephaniah 3:11 On that day you, Jerusalem, will not be put to shame for all the wrongs you have done to me, because I will remove from you your arrogant boasters. Never again will you be haughty on my holy hill.
Luke 11:8 I tell you, even though he will not get up and give you the bread because of friendship, yet because of your shameless audacity he will surely get up and give you as much as you need.
1 Corinthians 1:27 But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.
1 Corinthians 6:5 I say this to shame you. Is it possible that there is nobody among you wise enough to judge a dispute between believers?
Job 31:33 if I have concealed my sin as people do, by hiding my guilt in my heart
Exodus 23:1 [ Laws of Justice and Mercy ] “Do not spread false reports. Do not help a guilty person by being a malicious witness. 2 “Do not follow the crowd in doing wrong. When you give testimony in a lawsuit, do not pervert justice by siding with the crowd, 3 and do not show favoritism to a poor person in a lawsuit.
Leviticus 4:12 when they realize their guilt 14 and the sin they committed becomes known, the assembly must bring a young bull as a sin offering and present it before the tent of meeting.
Leviticus 4:21-23 when he realizes his guilt 23 and the sin he has committed becomes known, he must bring as his offering a male goat without defect.
Leviticus 4: 27 when they realize their guilt 28 and the sin they have committed becomes known, they must bring as their offering for the sin they committed a female goat without defect.
Leviticus 5:5 when anyone becomes aware that they are guilty in any of these matters, they must confess in what way they have sinned.
Leviticus 6:4 when they sin in any of these ways and realize their guilt, they must return what they have stolen or taken by extortion, or what was entrusted to them, or the lost property they found,
Leviticus 10:17 “Why didn’t you eat the sin offering in the sanctuary area? It is most holy; it was given to you to take away the guilt of the community by making atonement for them before the Lord.
Leviticus 19:17 “‘Do not hate a fellow Israelite in your heart. Rebuke your neighbor frankly so you will not share in their guilt.
Restitution for Wrongs
5 The LORD said to Moses, 6 “Say to the Israelites: ‘Any man or woman who wrongs another in any way[a] and so is unfaithful to the LORD is guilty 7 and must confess the sin they have committed. They must make full restitution for the wrong they have done, add a fifth of the value to it and give it all to the person they have wronged.
Numbers 14:18 ‘The Lord is slow to anger, abounding in love and forgiving sin and rebellion. Yet he does not leave the guilty unpunished;
Numbers 15:31 Because they have despised the Lord’s word and broken his commands, they must surely be cut off; their guilt remains on them.’”
Deuteronomy 5:11 “You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.
Deuteronomy 23:22 But if you refrain from making a vow, you will not be guilty.
1 Samuel 3:14 Therefore I swore to the house of Eli, ‘The guilt of Eli’s house will never be atoned for by sacrifice or offering.’”
1 Samuel 26:9 But David said to Abishai, “Don’t destroy him! Who can lay a hand on the Lord’s anointed and be guiltless?
2 Samuel 22:22 For I have kept the ways of the Lord; I am not guilty of turning from my God.
2 Samuel 24:10 David was conscience-stricken after he had counted the fighting men, and he said to the Lord, “I have sinned greatly in what I have done. Now, Lord, I beg you, take away the guilt of your servant. I have done a very foolish thing.”
1 Kings 2:33 May the guilt of their blood rest on the head of Joab and his descendants forever. But on David and his descendants, his house and his throne, may there be the Lord’s peace forever.”
2 Kings 12:16 The money from the guilt offerings and sin offerings was not brought into the temple of the Lord; it belonged to the priests.
1 Chronicles 21:8 Then David said to God, “I have sinned greatly by doing this. Now, I beg you, take away the guilt of your servant. I have done a very foolish thing.”
2 Chronicles 28:13 “You must not bring those prisoners here,” they said, “or we will be guilty before the Lord. Do you intend to add to our sin and guilt? For our guilt is already great, and his fierce anger rests on Israel.”
2 Chronicles 33:23 But unlike his father Manasseh, he did not humble himself before the Lord; Amon increased his guilt.
Ezra 9:6 and prayed: “I am too ashamed and disgraced, my God, to lift up my face to you, because our sins are higher than our heads and our guilt has reached to the heavens.
Ezra 9:13 “What has happened to us is a result of our evil deeds and our great guilt, and yet, our God, you have punished us less than our sins deserved and have given us a remnant like this.
Nehemiah 4:5 Do not cover up their guilt or blot out their sins from your sight, for they have thrown insults in the face of the builders.
Job 10:15 If I am guilty—woe to me! Even if I am innocent, I cannot lift my head, for I am full of shame and drowned in my affliction.
Psalm 18:21 For I have kept the ways of the Lord; I am not guilty of turning from my God.
Psalm 32:5 Then I acknowledged my sin to you and did not cover up my iniquity. I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the Lord.” And you forgave the guilt of my sin.
Psalm 38:4 My guilt has overwhelmed me like a burden too heavy to bear.
Psalm 51:14 Deliver me from the guilt of bloodshed, O God, you who are God my Savior, and my tongue will sing of your righteousness.
Psalm 69:5 You, God, know my folly; my guilt is not hidden from you.
Proverbs 17:15 Acquitting the guilty and condemning the innocent— the Lord detests them both.
Proverbs 21:8 The way of the guilty is devious, but the conduct of the innocent is upright.
Proverbs 24:24 Whoever says to the guilty, “You are innocent,” will be cursed by peoples and denounced by nations.
Proverbs 24:25 But it will go well with those who convict the guilty, and rich blessing will come on them.
Proverbs 28:17 Anyone tormented by the guilt of murder will seek refuge in the grave; let no one hold them back.
Isaiah 1:4 Woe to the sinful nation, a people whose guilt is great, a brood of evildoers, children given to corruption! They have forsaken the Lord; they have spurned the Holy One of Israel and turned their backs on him.
Isaiah 5:23 who acquit the guilty for a bribe, but deny justice to the innocent.
Isaiah 24:6 Therefore a curse consumes the earth; its people must bear their guilt. Therefore earth’s inhabitants are burned up, and very few are left.
Isaiah 24:20 The earth reels like a drunkard, it sways like a hut in the wind; so heavy upon it is the guilt of its rebellion that it falls—never to rise again.
Isaiah 29:21 those who with a word make someone out to be guilty, who ensnare the defender in court and with false testimony deprive the innocent of justice.
Isaiah 59:3 For your hands are stained with blood, your fingers with guilt. Your lips have spoken falsely, and your tongue mutters wicked things.
Jeremiah 2:22 Although you wash yourself with soap and use an abundance of cleansing powder, the stain of your guilt is still before me,” declares the Sovereign Lord.
Jeremiah 3:13 Only acknowledge your guilt— you have rebelled against the Lord your God, you have scattered your favors to foreign gods under every spreading tree, and have not obeyed me,’” declares the Lord.
Jeremiah 30:14 All your allies have forgotten you; they care nothing for you. I have struck you as an enemy would and punished you as would the cruel, because your guilt is so great and your sins so many.
Jeremiah 51:5 For Israel and Judah have not been forsaken by their God, the Lord Almighty, though their land is full of guilt before the Holy One of Israel.
Ezekiel 14:10 They will bear their guilt—the prophet will be as guilty as the one who consults him.
Ezekiel 21:24 “Therefore this is what the Sovereign Lord says: ‘Because you people have brought to mind your guilt by your open rebellion, revealing your sins in all that you do—because you have done this, you will be taken captive.
Hosea 1:2 [ Hosea’s Wife and Children ] When the Lord began to speak through Hosea, the Lord said to him, “Go, marry a promiscuous woman and have children with her, for like an adulterous wife this land is guilty of unfaithfulness to the Lord.”
Hosea 5:15 Then I will return to my lair until they have borne their guilt and seek my face— in their misery they will earnestly seek me.”
Hosea 10:2 Their heart is deceitful, and now they must bear their guilt. The Lord will demolish their altars and destroy their sacred stones.
Hosea 13:12 The guilt of Ephraim is stored up, his sins are kept on record.
Hosea 13:16 The people of Samaria must bear their guilt, because they have rebelled against their God. They will fall by the sword; their little ones will be dashed to the ground, their pregnant women ripped open.”
Nahum 1:3 The Lord is slow to anger but great in power; the Lord will not leave the guilty unpunished. His way is in the whirlwind and the storm, and clouds are the dust of his feet.
Habakkuk 1:11 Then they sweep past like the wind and go on— guilty people, whose own strength is their god.”
Mark 3:29 but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will never be forgiven; they are guilty of an eternal sin.”